Don’t Shoot the Messenger

Death came knocking, and he was ready. The recent loss of my 91-year-old grandfather has given me reason to pause and reflect on the key ingredients for a life lived well.

For more than 91 years, my grandfather was an active, vibrant man. Growing up in the Depression put him in search of a better way of life. Hard work, determination and wit were the keys to his success. He epitomized what it means to be a self-made man. Despite his success, he was anything but selfish. He was a giver in every way.
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The journey to Lakoma Island off the mainland of Malawi, Africa, had been tough. Hours on the open water had turned us green and our stomachs upside down.

After a good night’s sleep on solid ground, we awoke to high winds and the sound of waves beating the beach.

Our accommodations were adequate. The availability of running water on a remote island came as a surprise. Having a warm shower was pure delight. We were void a few of the luxuries of home, but our challenges weren’t close to the challenges contestants face on the hit TV show “Survivor.”
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We had done very well in the tournament. The little league baseball team had endured the hot Oklahoma sun, and the coach was ready to celebrate with his up-and-coming major leaguers.

Everyone was hungry and tired. Feeding the crew in short order was a priority. Having multiple food options would keep everyone happy. What better place to build camaraderie than the local buffet?
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